"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest." - Confucius "Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect." - Mark Twain "Knowledge speaks, but wisdom listens" - Jimi Hendrix I am well aware that I come off as someone that is being aloof: independent - in need of no one. And much of this is true. I have few friends. It is very hard to determine if this is by choice or because I am socially challenged. I admit that I view much of what others may value as a dried up tit. Its time to leave the litter and fend for myself. The others can continue to smell around in search of what is just not there! I suppose that because of this no one will ever seek me out as a long lost friend on Facebook . People are known to be social animals. Community is good. Friends and family are important. And ...